MEET MY BEST BUDDY!

last night was pretty awesome. A TOTAL BACHELOR NIGHT, no girls, no GF's just me and my bestfriend. it was after my duty when my best bud, Mark Edward Fernandez, decided to hang out and catch up things. We went to Balay Bistro and there we had some serious conversations, You know, what real adult man talks about. i thought I am only the one who thinks about the future, how it is like in 25 years time, and i forgot that the reason why we became best of friends is because we share the same thoughts and we wanted CHANGE. yeah, we both missed the Old days but Old days were gone, It was fun, and worth remembering, But it's the present time already so we decided to leave all the dramas and must have fun. The conversation was really superb and i, again, looked up to him as HE IS REALLY A CHANGE MAN. We missed hanging out with good old friends, but these friends of ours  also have different dilemma's and everything that they need to deal it with themselves. We both realize that we don't need "Many" to hang-out. We both were drunk and miraculously, we went home safe.

Markyboi tries very very hard surfing :)

so let me tell you something about him.  He was an acquaintance when we were high schools. yeah, we hang-out those days its because My friend Ludife was his girl best friend so we haven't really had a time to know each other. When we were in college and He decided to live with our other friends in one apartment, that's when we became close. I hate him when we were in our teenage years. I thought he was a bipolar.  (haha) there were times he was very happy and delighted, and then there are times that he is upset, throwing things everywhere, breaking the jalousies. I told myself i will never be having any connections with this guy. But i guess, let's say,the world turned over, as we became as close as we didn't imagine.

circle of best friends :)

although we have same thoughts at times, we have different perceptions about anything. We argue a lot of times talking with non- sense things like ano nauna? manok o itlog . haha. He may be seen as a tough guy and a stone-heart person, but when you started talking with him, you will see that he is a Drama king.


Not in a sense that his life is full of dramas like mine, but when he started speaking, you will just shut up cause whatever he said would make a big impact and will make you think and reflect to it. He isn't perfect, Who is? He is not a very super Religious person, Chain Smoker, Alcoholic. But he is the best man no one could imagine.

Edward, as i always call him,  is a dreamer. I remembered when all were picking on him about joining different things like auditioning to  Starstruck, different pageants and fashion shows, modeling (where he often brings something home after), i supported him all the way as he supported me in everything I do. He was sensitive about every one's

feeling. MR. CONGENIALITY? yeah, always. So as i always tell him, Do whatever you want buddy as long as you know that it is good for you cause i believe in you, and i am one of the greatest fan of your life. :)


then there was Melinda. Yes. My Best Bud's Long time Girl Friend. Marky's relationship in the past were all mess. No one deserves Mark, until Melinda came. I admit that i didn't like her at first, and i know they knew it because i am very vocal and frank about it. Melinda, indeed, proven her love to my best friend and tried befriending us. She exerted effort. and i love her. I love her maybe as much as bud do. She was just perfect for my best friend. I may have heard bad, evil things about her, about the past that is still haunting everyone, but who cares about it anyways? My best bud didn't, so what's the point? At times we still have tampuhans, the best part is, we always compromise, cause she is a friend now, not just mark's GF.

Noah Mckenzie B. Fernandez . September 27 2009- December 30 2009

Then Baby Noah McKenzie was born on September 27, 2009. Noah was born with a condition called Gastrochisis, where the intestine abnormally grew out side the abdomen. I rushed in to the hospital and Mark appeared very anxious as his son was, then, undergoing an operation. He was anxious, but he was strong. Noah was in ICU for like a month. he survived the operation and they brought him home. But i guessed God had better plans  that's why on December 30 of the same year, God retrieved our little angel. I crumbled down. It was heart crashing. i have just touched him once and it was hurtful saying goodbye to him. The reason why i was angry at someone who accused me of questioning melinda's moving on. I loved him as much as Mark and Mel loves him. It was devastating. when i thought that they bite that thought of questioning Mel, i was, very, very upset with them. They didn't know how much i have cared for my little Noah. Baby, again, teary- eyed, i want you to know that tito xander love you, please guide your parents, and please guide me too.

Bud brothers. haha

 Now we are all trying to move on with the past. We are. but not totally. So now we enjoyed life at it's fullest. Some may still have wrong choices, Some may still have bad judgment in life but no matter what happens, as long as my best bud is supporting me, as well as my other friends, life can't be bad at all.