i was waiting for an inspiration to write again cause i felt that i owe my blog so much writing, i've been busy lately with work and party. i was browsing some pictures when i see a picture of me and my girl best friend.
We are a typical Best friends. Those Best friend thing you watch in a Movie aside from that they are falling for each other. Haha kidding aside, I never thought it could be possible, being so close to a girl without falling in love with her romantically. People may not understand us, but we think we are true siblings by blood. I have never entrusted my personal life before to a girl. and before anyone sees me right now, She's the first one who saw me when i was invisible. 
She was my total opposite. She's maarte, I'm not. She's spoiled brat, I'm not. She's maporma, I'm not. But being close to her never made me think I'm Lesser. She always give it to a point where i can be myself without hesitations. If you don't know her you would really be pissed off or annoyed. She was really irritating to the eyes of the other people. I have dealt with that for the past 11 years. and i just have loved everything about her. so if people can't understand her, We are not begging you to understand her, cause we really don't care :)
We have fights also of course. But we learned to compromise. and We are grown ups already. When her brother died way back 2005 (not sure), I've promised to her parents that i would take care of her and will watch over her. But she began dating some guy who, for me, is not deserving of her. i didn't object and even supported them. When a rumor spread out that i, allegedly, talk bad things about her, it was easy for her to believe that. that time, i wasn't a loss. We haven't talk for a year. I have met then my girlfriend and even forgot about her, but there are times i really missed her. And as fate brought us, we just find out, we are OK again and that there's nothing to talk about.. She apologized, and i did too.
She were always there for me (gasgas na itong linyang ito pero this is so true).She helped me in every aspects of life. She helped me move-on with my ex girlfriend then. She answers our restau bills when i have less. She drives me to work and to my girl's house. She drives me to pay the bills. She listens and respected me. If my girlfriend and I have a big fight i always confide it with her, and kahit ako ang bestfriend nya, Si Hazel ang kinakampihan nya. and i totally idolized it. She loved Hazel cause she knew I love Hazel very much. It was really hard introducing her to Hazel cause I don't know if she would understand how close i am with her. But Hazel do understand. and never get jealous of her. I am happy that those two of the most important girls in my life are close. She and Hazel seems to have the same taste on dress, clothes, fashion, movies etc that is why it is not hard to shop my girl especially if I'm with my best friend.
We still are opposites.. there are still things i don't like with her and still tell it to her. there are still things she likes that i don't like. But there are a lot of things we both love. We love the beach, the waves, getting tanned, eating isaw and other street foods, bar hopping, restaurant hopping, picture taking etc. These are just few. and whatever it takes, She will still be my girl best friend forever :)
(notice the pictures, she's always on my right and i am always on her left, that is never a co-incidence. that is our nice angles. haha)
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